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Increasing Key Relationship Value by Mastering the Power of Gratitude

📅 March 3, 2023 ⏱️ 47:36 🎤 Tommy Mello, John Ruhlin

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  • 0:00
    Live in St. Louis: what matters most
  • 1:40
    The Giftology story that hooked Tommy
  • 2:14
    Cameron Herold, the 'CEO whisperer'
  • 6:03
    The integrator model & finding your #2
  • 11:27
    Choosing the right PE / growth partner
  • 15:52
    Leading family & team through change
  • 23:34
    Building a world-class executive assistant
  • 29:34
    Health, longevity & Pinnacle
  • 36:41
    Giftology: gifting that creates stories
  • 41:02
    Customer service & training your team
  • 44:51
    Benefits that retain great people
  • 46:30
    Resourcefulness & the power of gratitude

Speakers

T
Tommy Mello
Host — A1 Garage / Home Service Expert
J
John Ruhlin
Author of 'Giftology'; founder of the Ruhlin Group (relationship-driven strategic gifting)

Key Takeaways

Business ultimately comes down to people and relationships — outside of family, relationships are what matter most, and gratitude is how you invest in them.

Strategic gifting ('giftology') is a deliberate way to tell key relationships 'I see you, you matter, I'm in your corner' — and it creates stories people tell about you when you're not in the room.

Give generously and intentionally: a three-quarter-million-dollar gifting budget pays off because thoughtful gestures drive referrals and loyalty that banner ads never will.

Show up for people when it counts — the 'had him at hello' principle: consistently over-deliver and people keep saying yes to you.

Invest in a world-class executive assistant, but don't make one person responsible for everything — build buffers and structure so the support scales with you.

When choosing a private-equity or growth partner, how they'll treat your people and the language they use matters as much as the multiple they offer.

The number-one trait to hire for is resourcefulness — people who can make a phone call and get connected.

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